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    10 Mistakes We Make As Singles

    mblwrites / 05/02/2021 / 0 Comments

    These are the 10 biggest mistakes that we make as singles, and need to stop making them. But they can also be great single life lessons. To this day, there are moments in…

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  • Singlehood Lifestyle,  Singlehood Self Care

    TheraBox “Cozy” November 2020 Subscription Box Unboxing

    mblwrites / 04/02/2021 / 0 Comments

    Unboxing the TheraBox “Cozy” November 2020 Subscription Box – full review and closeup pictures of all the products that came in the box. + Coupon Code {This post may contain affiliate links, which…

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  • Embracing Singlehood,  Self Development,  Single Life Blog

    Being The Single Friend

    mblwrites / 29/01/2021 / 0 Comments

    The effects of being the single friend of the group, when all your friends are married or in serious relationships. A couple of weeks ago, I wrote a blog post about being the…

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  • Singlehood Lifestyle,  Singlehood Self Care,  Singles Swag Unboxing

    Singles Swag Subscription Box Unboxing – JAN 2021

    mblwrites / 28/01/2021 / 0 Comments

    Unboxing the Singles Swag January 2021 Subscription Box – full review and closeup pictures of all the products that came in the box. + Coupon Code {This post may contain affiliate links, which…

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  • Embracing Singlehood,  Self Development,  Single Life Blog

    Divorce Child

    mblwrites / 22/01/2021 / 0 Comments

    About being a divorced child, and how having divorced parents impacts and connects to my own love life and singlehood. ** Check out the end of the blog for a poem I wrote…

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  • Singlehood Lifestyle,  Singlehood Self Care

    TheraBox “Holiday” December 2020 Subscription Box Unboxing

    mblwrites / 20/01/2021 / 0 Comments

    Unboxing the TheraBox "Holiday'' December 2020 Subscription Box - full review and pictures of all the products that came in the box. + Coupon

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  • Self Development,  Single Life Blog,  Thirty & Single

    7 Stages of Being the Single Sister

    mblwrites / 15/01/2021 / 0 Comments

    These are the 7 stages of being the single sister of the family, and how best to cope with them and find all of the wonderful perks of being the single sister. For…

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  • Singlehood Lifestyle,  Singlehood Self Care,  Singles Swag Unboxing

    Singles Swag Subscription Box Unboxing – NOV 2020

    mblwrites / 13/01/2021 / 0 Comments

    Unboxing the Singles Swag November 2020 Subscription Box – full review and closeup pictures of all the products that came in the box. + Coupon Code {This post may contain affiliate links, which…

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    Are You Too Comfortable In Your Own Company?

    mblwrites / 08/01/2021 / 0 Comments

    6 Signs you are too comfortable in your own company, the possible repercussions and how best to cope. A few weeks ago, I wrote a blog post about 10 steps to enjoy your…

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  • Singlehood Lifestyle,  Singlehood Self Care

    TONYMOLY December Subscription Box Unboxing

    mblwrites / 06/01/2021 / 0 Comments

    A full review of the products in the TONYMOLY December Subscription Box Unboxing + close up pictures of the products. {This post may contain affiliate links, which means I make a small commission…

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Welcome to my blog! Where I write about single life lessons and single life in all of its glory – life experiences, anxiety, travel, relationships. In my blog posts I share my own Personal stories, thoughts, insights and struggles. Throughout my platforms I offer Tips & advice for having a happy single life and how to feel comfortable in your own skin and company.
Michal B.L.

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{SWIPE}-> to read how you should STOP asking, and {SWIPE}-> to read how you should STOP asking, and how you should START asking.  💾 SAVE to remind yourself later.  🔊 SHARE to inspire your friends.  Let's face it, we've all asked ourselves this question at least once in our life, probably more. Personally, I've definitely asked myself more often than I should have.  Usually the "why me?" question is accompanied by a lot of heartache and pain, it's usually asked in a deep, heavy manner, and probably drowned in a pool of tears.  STOP asking yourself in such a self depreciation way, one that only enhances your inferiority complex and lowers your self esteem.  STOP asking yourself in such a self pity way, which only enhances your feelings of feeling sorry for yourself - which is a dangerous downward spiral.  STOP asking yourself in such a self sabotaging way, which only distances you even more from finding any form of answers, happiness and strength  Instead do this:  START asking yourself in a self lifting way, which will help you increase your superiority. You are the one for a reason, one that will help you grow.  START asking yourself in a self pride way, one that suggests it is something to feel thankful for - because this is an opportunity for you to reach greatness.  START asking yourself in a self aiding and encouraging way, which allows you to find your own strength and all the answers you need for your why.  In my experience, for example, I kept asking myself why am I the one one still single. I asked in a way that suggested that there was something seriously and fundamentally wrong with me.  I started asking myself in a way that suggested I was single for a good reason.  What is the deeper reason I'm still single?  I made a decision that I'm going to take advantage of it, find all of the opportunities within it.  How and you? How have you asked yourself “why me”? Have you managed to change your mindset?
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One of my favourite ways to spend some quality time with myself, is definitely by getting my creative juices flowing.  It's a great form of occupational / art therapy, and definitely improves your own self worth by allowing you to have fun with yourself.  If you're struggling for creative ideas, if you're lost and don't know where to start - these crafts subscription boxes can be a great solution for you.  You get all of the materials and tools you need to make one specific product, which is great fun and is also a great way to discover new hobbies.  How about you? Have you tried Maker Crate or Makerly? Do you enjoy arts and crafts?  ** check out the link in my bio for the full review and pics + a link for 50% off your first Maker Crate box.  @makerlycrafts @kiwico_inc @makercrate  💜  🚶‍♀️Follow @mblwrites for more single life lessons to help you embrace singleness  PS. 
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💾 SAVE to remain yourself later. 🔊 SHARE t 💾 SAVE to remain yourself later.  🔊 SHARE to inspire your friends.  💜  📝 Which regret have you had from this list?  🧮 What are your biggest regrets?  📖 What lessons have you learned from them?  💜  🚶‍♀️Follow @mblwrites for more single life lessons to help you embrace singleness  PS. 
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SWIPE -> to read the do’s and don’ts’s.  💾 SAVE to remain yourself later.  🔊 SHARE to inspire your friends.  You will never be able to truly overcome your loneliness, if you keep avoiding it and don't face it head on.  Don’t do this:  ❌ Don't escape your lonesome by jumping into relationships, or escaping into the company of others.  ❌ Don't treat and talk about yourself and your own company like a punishment, like it's the worst thing in the world.  ❌ Don't waste your alone time by only doing unproductive activities like playing on your phone and scrolling through social media.  ❌ Don't compare yourself to others. Firstly, you don't know what goes on under the surface. Secondly, you're on different paths. Also, it's a toxic habit which will just make you more miserable and bitter.  Instead, do this:  ✅ Make a point of spending time being single, to be with yourself in your own company and presence.  ✅ Start treating your own company and yourself like a treat and something to be treasured, cherish your alone time.  ✅ Spend. quality time with yourself, take yourself on dates that help you grow closer to you, dates that help you have good, significant times alone.  ✅ Focus on your own journey and path, only compare your progress and yourself to YOU, from where you were yesterday to where you are today.  Take advantage of your singlehood and use it to focus on your own growth and development. Learn how to use you own strength and not to rely on others to do it for you.  How about you? Do you embrace your loneliness and and alone time?  💜  🚶‍♀️Follow @mblwrites for more single life lessons to help you embrace singleness  PS. 
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💬 COMMENT below your biggest fear of single lif 💬 COMMENT below your biggest fear of single life  NEW BLOG POST - Top Tips For Overcoming Fear of Single Life  **link in bio**  Sneak Peak:  Fear is an interesting thing, because more often than not, it prevents you from doing the things, and making the changes that are best for you.  For example, I overstayed my welcome in a relationship that was bad for me. I did so out of fear of being alone, but turns out, being alone was exactly what I needed.  At the time I was also having anxiety, and I was afraid to break up with him because he was the only one who knew about it. And I thought I needed him.  But almost as soon as we broke up, most of the anxiety dissipated. Now I believe that part of the reason I even had anxiety to begin with was because I was with him.  One of the biggest takeaways from this, and many other mistakes I made out of fear… Is that you need to face your fears head on and not let them control you.  That will only make it worse. Because on the other side of fear, stands exactly what you need and where you need to be.  Click the link in bio for the five tips and tricks that helped me overcome the fear of single life and loneliness.  How about you? How have you overcome fear? What have you avoided out of fear?  💜  🚶‍♀️Follow @mblwrites for more single life lessons to help you embrace singleness  PS. 
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{SWIPE}-> to read why you should push through the {SWIPE}-> to read why you should push through the hard times.  Do you know that feeling after a good run or workout? Where you gave it your all and finished it panting and sweating, but also on cloud nine because it feels so damn good.  Or that feeling after a long, hard hike? When you're standing on the top of a mountain and staring out at a breathtaking view, while all red and aching from the climb?  Or...
- Getting an A after studying hard for a test.
- Completing a project you spent hours upon hours on.
- Receiving a well deserved raise, bonus or promotion at work.  That feeling of accomplishment, of success is made that much better by earning it with hard work and effort. If it came easy, that feeling would be fleeting and insignificant.  Everything good in life worth having will be challenging and take a lot of effort. And you need to be brave and take those leaps of faith into the unknown. Believe in yourself and know that you can do it.  If it's something that you love, something that makes you happy and that you're really good at - fight for it, and don't give up until you have it.  Being happily single and loving yourself, is one of the hardest, but also most fulfilling journey's you will every go on. But you will come out stronger and better, and then pay it forward.  How about you? Do you push through the hard times? Do you believe in yourself?  💜  🚶‍♀️Follow @mblwrites for more single life lessons to help you embrace singleness  PS. 
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@singlesswag March 2021 Subscription Box Unboxing @singlesswag March 2021 Subscription Box Unboxing •. •
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When was the last time you actually invested in yourself? Part of being single, is developing and maintaining a relationship with yourself, just like any other relationship you have in your life.  So just like those relationships, you need to take yourself out on dates - spend some quality time with you. You need to pamper yourself, and surprise yourself with some nice gifts.  Being single is not easy, at least not at first, it's even quite scary, which is why so many people avoid it by jumping into the first relationship they can find. Which is usually the wrong one.  One of my favourite ways to help me embrace myself and my singleness, is by surprising myself with subscription boxes. It's a great way of buying yourself a gift, without actually knowing what you're gonna get - just like receiving a gift from a partner, or anyone else.  It's one of the small joys in life that make the best kind of difference, and help put a happy, genuine smile on your face.  How about you? Do you get yourself gifts? Which subscription boxes have you tried?  💜  🚶‍♀️Follow @mblwrites for more single life lessons to help you embrace singleness  PS. 
Check out the 🔗 in bio for my full Single Life Lessons blog and FREE e-mail NEWSLETTER 📇  💜  This is what was in the March 2021 box -  * LUXE BEAUTY - Lavish Me 5-Piece Face Mask Set | $34 - @luxebeautyskincare
* RELAX BY T.TAIO - Exfoliating Wash Cloth | $10 
* COSTA MESA SUPPLY - Isla  Two-Tone Decorative Vase | $24 - @mesasupplyco
* STEVE LAURANT - Orchard Lip Oil | $20 - @stevelaurantbeauty
* FINGER LICKING DUTCH - Stroopwafels - Caramel Waffle Cookies | $4 - @fingerlickingdutch
* AMELIA RUE - Cora 4-piece Bracelet Set | $58
* LARITZY - Dew Pot | $20 - @laritzycosmetics
* CAMBRIDGE PROPER - Cool Satin Pillow Sleeves | $44
💾 SAVE to remember later 🤩 Which of these e 💾 SAVE to remember later 🤩  Which of these essentials is your favorite? What are your top essentials you can’t live without?  ☂️  🚶‍♀️Follow @mblwrites for more single life lessons to help you embrace singleness  PS. 
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SWIPE -> to read why you should embrace the loneli SWIPE -> to read why you should embrace the loneliness.  Tap the 💜 if you agree ⬇️  No one should go through life avoiding their own company and presence. Whether it be because they don’t like themselves so much, or because they fear loneliness.  It is absurd to me that so many people can’t stand to be alone with themselves in a room. You are the one constant person in your life, and you need to learn how to fend for yourself.  You need to learn how to develop and maintain a strong, deep relationship with yourself, just like every other relationship you have in your life. If not more. The fact that it challenges you, is the main reason to do it anyway.  Yeah, it’s not easy. But good things worth having, rarely are. The only way to get over a fear, is by facing it, again and again. Embrace the loneliness, soak in it for a while. Learn how to cope with it.  With time and patience it will get easier.  How about you? Have you faced loneliness? How did you cope?  💜  🚶‍♀️Follow @mblwrites for more single life lessons to help you embrace singleness  PS. 
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YouTube Video UCzv3tvsSMUFAtm2AvHe4QEQ_x8KAiaYL4iI Maker Crate vs. Makerly - Craft Subscriptions Unboxing  The monthly price of the Maker Crate box - $29.95  - Get 50% 0ff your first month - https://www.mblwrites.com/Kiwico50  The monthly price for the Makerly Box -  £18 within the UK,  £24.00 outside the UK.  - Get your own Makerly box - https://www.makerlycrafts.com/  Check out the full review and close-up pics on my blog - https://www.mblwrites.com/maker-crate-vs-makerly-craft-subscriptions-unboxing/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mblwrites/
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Maker Crate vs. Makerly - Craft Subscriptions Unboxing  The monthly price of the Maker Crate box - $29.95  - Get 50% 0ff your first month - https://www.mblwrites.com/Kiwico50  The monthly price for the Makerly Box -  £18 within the UK,  £24.00 outside the UK.  - Get your own Makerly box - https://www.makerlycrafts.com/  Check out the full review and close-up pics on my blog - https://www.mblwrites.com/maker-crate-vs-makerly-craft-subscriptions-unboxing/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mblwrites/
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Maker Crate vs. Makerly - Craft Subscriptions Unboxing
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SinglesSwag Subscription Box Unboxing - March 2021  Singles Swag Petite Box - 24.99$ - 4-5 full size products. 
Single Swag Regular Box - 39.99 - 7-9 4-5 full size products.  Get 15$ OFF your first box! - https://www.mblwrites.com/singlesswag15  Full Unboxing review + close up pictures - https://www.mblwrites.com/singlesswag-march-2021-subscription-box-unboxing/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mblwrites/
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Blog: https://www.mblwrites.com/  Disclaimer: Unless stated otherwise, nothing in this video is sponsored or a paid advertisement. I may include an affiliate link in the video's description. These may or may not  allow me to make a small commission, at no extra cost to you. Your support is very much appreciated! :)
SinglesSwag Subscription Box Unboxing - March 2021 + Coupon Code
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Splendies Underwear Subscription Unboxing - March 2021  Splendies is $14.99 for 3 underwear a month - https://www.mblwrites.com/splendies  Full Unboxing review + close up pictures - https://www.mblwrites.com/splendies-underwear-subscription-march-2021/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mblwrites/
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Blog: https://www.mblwrites.com/  Disclaimer: Unless stated otherwise, nothing in this video is sponsored or a paid advertisement. I may include an affiliate link in the video's description. These may or may not  allow me to make a small commission, at no extra cost to you. Your support is very much appreciated! :)
Splendies Underwear Subscription Unboxing - March 2021
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SinglesSwag Subscription Box Unboxing - February 2021  Singles Swag Petite Box - 24.99$ - 4-5 full size products. 
Single Swag Regular Box - 39.99 - 7-9 4-5 full size products.  Get 15$ OFF your first box! - https://www.mblwrites.com/singlesswag15  Full Unboxing review + close up pictures - https://www.mblwrites.com/singlesswag-february-2021-subscription-box-unboxing/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mblwrites/
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Blog: https://www.mblwrites.com/  Disclaimer: Unless stated otherwise, nothing in this video is sponsored or a paid advertisement. I may include an affiliate link in the video's description. These may or may not  allow me to make a small commission, at no extra cost to you. Your support is very much appreciated! :)
SinglesSwag Subscription Box Unboxing - February 2021 + Coupon Code
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